Marriage After Miscarriage | Episode 111 with Josefina Sanders

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Episode 111

This week I am chatting with Josefina Sanders. She has joined us on the podcast in the past and was a speaker for our virtual conference this past fall. I am excited to have her back on the podcast as she has an incredible amount of wisdom to share. You can look forward to hearing her more as we plan to have her back a few more times in the coming year. This week I am asking Josefina all the questions about what it was like to navigate marriage amidst loss. Over the past 4 years she and her husband have experienced two miscarriages and have walked through much in regard to their journey to becoming parents. It has been difficult and yet Josefina said everything they have gone through has deeply impacted their relationship for the better. 

One of the things Josefina and I talk about is how to pursue your spouse or partner even amidst loss and grief; she talked about making time for and being intentional about having fun… even when you’re hurting. We know how difficult that can be but also how important it is, so we put together a free download for you to use to help re-ignite that fun and give your hearts a break from heavy and hard conversations and moments of grief.  Head to themorning.com/marriage, to download 29 date night ideas that will help you connect with your spouse or partner even in the midst of grief.

This episode is full of incredible wisdom, practical advice and tender honesty about navigating marriage after miscarriage -- I am sure this episode is going to bless you. Now let’s jump in. 


QUESTIONS we discuss IN EPISODE 111

  1. How long have you been married? How long had you been married when you experienced your losses?

  2. What do you think is the most challenging aspect of navigating the marriage relationship after loss?

  3. How did you grieve differently than your husband and how have you navigated those differences?

  4. What advice would you give a grieving couple about how to navigate those challenges?

  5. What would you say to the woman who wants to talk about grief and emotions, but her spouse/partner does not want to engage in those conversations?

  6. What is one way you have practically pursued each other during this season of grief? 


Meet Josefina

“outside of being an artist, creator, and writer; i am a wife. an angel mama x2. foster mama.
i am the daughter of immigrants, a lover of community, and a believer.
spanish is my first language, although i forget many words. art is my second.
growing up i was instilled to believe that art could not pay bills. so for years i kept my love for art at arm’s length and sought a profession outside of what filled my love tank.

i got married at 23, dropped out of college, racked up debt, and was diagnosed with depression and anxiety in my early twenties.

i taught myself calligraphy while struggling with depression.
as i created and journaled, i experienced a different kind of freedom….” Read More

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29 Date Night Ideas

Re-connect with your spouse and have fun again, even amidst the heaviness of this season. 

Use these 29 simple, not complicated, date night ideas to give your hearts a break from the heavy and hard conversations and moments of grief.


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